ABOUT THE THIRD THING
This is all about the other love.
There are endless resources for romantic love: couples therapy, date nights, love languages. But the friendships that carried us through everything rarely get that same care. The Third Thing says: they should.
We're Michelle & Danyelle, best friends for 26 years. This is where we name the things that challenge us in platonic relationships: race, money, sobriety, politics, drifting apart, and the jealousy nobody admits to, and offer the tools we've learned along the way.
New episodes weekly
Press play: pajamas on, mics up, tea spilled.
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A FEW THINGS WE'RE ABOUT
The vibe, prestine.
Still holding on
26 years deep
Our kind of church
city wanderers
Spirit-led
reading the cards
Front-stoop talks
everything & nothing
"There is no special love exclusively reserved for romantic partners."
— BELL HOOKS | ALL ABOUT LOVE —
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Navigating Conflict With Friends
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What's Your Friendship Attachment Style?
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